mistakes

Many years before crows feet landed under my eyes, I read a book about forgiveness. I had long thought that forgiveness meant you just sucked it up, whatever someone did to you and then tried to move on. Over time, this became unsustainable. I could not keep walking away, biting my tongue, or taking the… READ MORE >>

Below you will find what I posted on my Facebook page about the crazy writing time I had yesterday. This is my excuse for not blogging on my usual day. I have ideas for next week brewing but that's about it. Had the story ready in November. Contest date was all the way in March. I'll… READ MORE >>

In the early 1990s, I traveled to Germany and became desperately homesick. I had decided I wanted to really learn German and went on a work visa to Hamburg, far away from the American military bases. I lived with a German friend in her apartment and found a job serving banquets in a nearby hotel. My German… READ MORE >>

Warning: My dog died. Read on at your own risk. Last weekend we had to say goodbye to our sweet Cosmo. It's a sad story with a sad ending that I don't feel like telling on the Interwebs. In fact, I'm late posting this week because I don't feel like telling that story, but it's… READ MORE >>

I am hovering on the edge of doing anything writerly lately. I look at the work I need to do, lift my pen, scribble a few words, and then put the pen back down. The keyboard isn't much better. I'll open programs, stare at a screen, and then wander away to vacuum. Or worse. I'll… READ MORE >>

I've struggled with what to write this week. Much has happened. A double funeral with dear friends who lost a mother and a father in two days. The kindness of neighbors who could have hurt us but didn't. Neither of these are my stories to tell, though. So I won't. I did see something that… READ MORE >>

This will be a short post. The door is done! Done! (I ache to replace the hardware with silver but have no more oomph for that sort of insanity.) For now, I'm back to my usual groove of teaching and writing. A new quarter begins this Monday and I am gearing up for a poetry workshop… READ MORE >>

How to get yourself to write in nine easy steps: Tell yourself to take the week off. Give yourself some terrible, awful, no good house chore that you think will be fun like painting your front door. (Simple laundry or bathroom cleaning chores won't work. It must be something dreadful.) Ask at least three cranky over-worked… READ MORE >>